As we focus so much time on our adoption it has occurred to us that we not only need to involve our children in the process, but we need to make sure we spend time with them. We need to be with them as a family, but also as individuals.

To that end, tonight we took the older kids to a movie and then after leaving them with their nanny and pappy, we took Owen shopping and to a late dinner.

Kids matter. The one you’re working to get and the ones you already have!